Life is about change

All the issues in our lives, all the challenging situations we have to face everyday are not problems but CHANGE. Life is about change and adapting to those changes, Unfortunately, human beings are not ready for a change because we like to live in our confort zone. If we saw challenging situations not as problems but as changes in our lives, our perspective on how to look at things will change completely.
Change is not good or bad. Change is change. When something affects you , just stop for a minute to see what is in your control and what is not in your control. You will see that 95% of the external situations are out of you control, the only thing you can control is yourself and how to respond to the external situations coming to you.
Don't focus on the situations, FOCUS on you and how to handle the changes in your life. The good news is that every situation has a solution, you just have to take the time to see how you can solve it but your mind should be stable, not in pain. Solution comes when there is stability in the self, if people are in pain , they will never find the solution to the changes in their lives.
There is only one thing that is constant and that is change. So learn how to handle those changes in life by looking at problems as challenges and with a stable mind you will find the solution to those challenges. Focus on the solution not on the situation and remember that changes are always opprotunities for growth and expansion.